Tag: anarchy
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If you could change the ending of any book, which one would it be? (From a Pregnant Alt Wife at 23)
If you could change the ending of any book, which one would it be? if i could rewrite the ending of any book it would hands down be the bell jar by sylvia plath • that ending always leaves me feeling so hollow and heavy • esther finally gets out of the hospital but it…
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Which Languages Do You Speak and How Did That Impact Your Life? (From a Pregnant Alt Wife at 23)
Which languages do you speak and how did that impact your life? • i only really speak English fluently • i took a few years of Spanish in high school and can still hold a basic conversation if i try hard • growing up in a small town, english was pretty much it for me…
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Dear Rebels ZVA: Mom kicked me out for partying, I’m 19 with a Dollar Tree job, crashing at my boyfriend’s parents, and I’m thinking about stripping for money… help
hey love, first — i’m really sorry you’re going through this. getting kicked out at 19 sucks, especially when you’re not in college and money is tight • feeling helpless is valid right now, but you’re not alone and you’re not out of options • stripping might feel like the fastest way to make cash,…
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Dear Reader: You’re 20, You Love Sleeping With Multiple Guys, and Your Conservative Christian Mom Is Threatening to Kick You Out
hey love, first — i’m really proud of you for being honest with her. that shit is scary as hell, especially when you know it’s gonna hurt her. but you’re allowed to live your life and love your body the way you want. you don’t owe your mom your sexuality. you’re 20, not 12. your…
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What’s your top tip to be successful in life?
What’s your top tip to be successful in life? my top tip? stop chasing the version of success that looks good on paper • start building a life that actually feels like home instead • i spent so long thinking success meant being the coolest unbothered alt girl with big plans and zero vulnerability •…
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Dear Rebels ZVA: Advice for an 18yo who wants babies but not college — single mom or marry the boyfriend?
hey love, first off you’re only 18 and that’s so young to already be thinking this hard about kids and forever stuff • i get it though, some of us just know we want to be moms more than we want a degree or a 9-5 and that’s valid • but please don’t rush into…
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What’s a common misconception people have about happiness?
What’s a common misconception people have about happiness? the most common misconception about happiness is that it’s supposed to be this constant glowing feeling — like if you’re really happy you wake up smiling every day with zero bad moods or hard days • people act like true happiness means you’re always positive, always grateful,…
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The One Skill This Pregnant Alt Wife Would Master Instantly (And Why It’s Not Makeup or Cooking)
If you could instantly master any skill, what would it be and why? if i could snap my fingers and instantly master any skill, it would be playing guitar — like actually playing it, not just basic chords • i want to be able to pick up any guitar and pour my whole chaotic heart…