by rebelzva & cptxbonnot
What quality do you value most in a friend?

– the one quality i value most in a friend is real, ride-or-die loyalty. not the fake “i got you” type… but the kind where they show up for you even when it’s messy, even when you’re hormonal and annoying, even when the world is against you
– i’ve had friends who were fun and funny but disappeared the second things got hard. i don’t want that anymore. i want the friend who will sit in the dark with me, who will defend me when i’m not in the room, who will tell me the truth even if it stings because they actually care about my growth
– my husband is obviously my best friend, but even outside of him i want people who choose me the same way i choose them — no games, no half-assed energy, just solid, consistent love and loyalty
– i’m pregnant now and it’s made me even pickier. i don’t have time for fake friends or flaky ones. i want the kind of friends our daughter can grow up seeing… people who show up, who protect each other’s peace, who celebrate the wins and hold space for the lows
– loyalty feels like safety to me. it’s rare, it’s precious, and once i find it i hold onto it tight
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