by rebelzva & cptxbonnot
Are you a leader or a follower?

I’ve never really felt like a leader or a follower. Before I met my husband I was more of a “do whatever feels good in the moment” kind of girl — following whatever gave me excitement or attention. I didn’t have any real direction, I was just floating.
– Meeting him changed that. He didn’t try to lead me or make me follow him. He walked beside me and loved me exactly as I was. That kind of love made me want to grow up and choose my own path instead of drifting through life.
– Now I think we’re both a little of both. We don’t follow trends, politics, or what everyone else is doing. We question things together and make decisions based on what feels right for our family. In that way, I guess we’re leaders of our own little world.
– As a soon-to-be mom, I feel like I’m learning to lead in a different way — leading with love, patience, and intention for our daughter. I want her to see us living freely, not following anyone else’s rules but our own.
What about you? Do you see yourself more as a leader, a follower, or something else? Tell us in the comments — we’re curious how you think about this ❤️
rebelzva & cptxbonnot
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